01-08-2020, 12:00 PM
(01-08-2020, 10:38 AM)pbrower2a Wrote: It devolves to ideas of the days of early civilization in which life was extremely precarious and much of what passed as knowledge was in practice superstition. Masturbation was a waste of sperm, as was homosexuality, especially when people needed to produce large numbers of children to offset the Malthusian checks of war, famine, disease, and crime.
In more recent times, puritanical thought established the idea (this coincides with the novel values of the new commercial societies that any enjoyment of life was denying one the opportunity to create wealth -- if not for oneself, then at least for an early capitalist). Sex for its own sake? An abomination! Besides, there was no safe treatment for syphilis, a risk of any reveler.
Cheating on your spouse is still a bad idea. You will leave clues as in your credit-card statements. Someone might count the condoms and draw conclusions that you find unwelcome.
If you have an addiction to sex, then get help! Bad habits are usually worth the costs of freeing oneself of them.
Thanks pbrower2a for getting involved with a subject that is mostly pushed behind closed doors even though it effects everyone.
I use the word addiction only because (for my wife and I) if fits because we seem to never have enough of it and I am thankful that I am married to another addict. We have been together for 25 years and never have cheated on each other. We contribute that to the use of porn and masturbation.