05-11-2019, 11:26 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-11-2019, 11:29 PM by beechnut79.)
(05-11-2019, 09:28 PM)taramarie Wrote: Likewise where we start is looking within ourselves and ask, am I also projecting out hateful speech and action? Am I interpreting life in a negative way and why? Personally I do not like the word, but I am not about to scream about it because in my life as it is right now, I am focusing on my own flaws which I do have. I expect that the users of that word have their own reasons why but there is nothing that can be done about it and rather they should also ask why do they use it and why if it is used to cause hatred what it is within them that causes them to feel the need to cause that reaction. I feel there is a projection of inner scars as when one is using it for that reason it is a reflection of what is within the person. Again, I feel it could be used in various ways....that word. I don't know but I don't care enough about that. I have my own topics I am more involved in like circumcision, abuse and healing myself from what caused my cptsd as how can you help others in a healthy way when you yourself are broken? Consider how you come across is all I will say. There is wisdom in the right approach to certain topics. Otherwise you will have people sick and tired of listening and nothing will change at all if that is what you desire. But we must remember, the world is made up of people with differing opinions.Can't we get along and stop using this forum for personal attack? Yes there was some of that on the old forum as well but not this bad. Yes there are things I'm angry about too but they mostly pertain to major issues that we don't seem to have the will to deal with, such as barbaric housing costs. I read posts with the venom of a cobra on other forums as well and consider it sickening. The forum can provide us with the opportunity to get a lot of work done. So let's be disciplined and work towards a goal of bringing to the table ideas on how to deal with the next round of destiny. OK?